ism critic

Im trying to get into the fashion industry and criticism is crucial. If you can't take the heat, stay out of the kitchen. Not a lot of people can take honest criticism probably because they weren't raised with parents who were honest with them. Some people just don't want to hear it at all. I feel like we need it to make ourselves better and give room to improve. If we don't let others criticize us and if we don't listen to it then we won't be able to improve ourselves. whether it is bad or good we need to hear it and stay humble if we do hear good thoughts. The world does not like boastful people and it turns them off so we must stick to being ourselves. When i watch things like project runway, it makes me feel bad for those who are standing there being criticized by those fashion professionals who know what they are talking about but you just need to turn all those comments into something positive and do something about it. Growing up personally my parents have always been honest with me and tell me if I'm gaining weight or if i  shouldn't come out the house in the outfit that i am wearing.

folks now a days...

you would think that everyone has common sense but for some reason not everyone does. Its all from experience and knowledge. Its like knowing that green is go and red is stop. But i beleive it could be from where you come from as well and what you are used to growing up with. I mean we know if something is steaming hot like coffee that is served to you to not drink it right away but some stupid idiot one day decided that they wanted to drink it while it was still hot. so now on all the drink cups like starbucks and mcdonalds, puts caution dont drink while hot. Wouldnt you think we would all know not to do such a thing? i clearly think it is stupidity and then someone decides to sue that company for their dumb idea. so i beleive it is about experience and how much you need to know in life that everyone else must know as well. Be sensible basically, use those four senses. Touch, hear, smell, and see what is going on in the world and make sure you know.

hu mil i ty

Omg first of all im mad that my laptop decides to mess up right after im trying to write my blog, so this is my second time writing this. Sooo... humility... everyone has been humiliated atleast once in their life. i remember the first time i was humiliated was by my best friend at the time. She decided to tell my crush that i really like him and i couldnt stop talking about him since the day i met him. i was highly upset and so embarassed that she decided to do that in front of me. But later on in life i realized that she was only trying to help me out. So i should probably go find her and thank her because 10 years later the guy found me on facebook and told me that he liked me too but the only problem was that he decided to tell me too late when he moved to texas. Oh well story of my life. Well i learned that as you get older you learn that some things arent worth being embarrased about and its not much of a big deal.

kanye west made me think of attitude for some reason

not only does his attitude in this piece make an affect but people dont like his attitude as a person but it definately gets him to where he is today

attitude is everything

It's important to have a positive attitude in everything you do, although easier said than done. In interviews, the employer sees it and when even when you dance. Facial expression and emotion come together and make your attitude. You have to set up your mindset and go into something knowing that you can do it. Confidence is definately key as well so you have to incorporate that into your attitude. No one likes a stinky attitude ofcourse, unless they like drama and they want to be around that just to talk about you or be upset with life. Growing up my parents did not put up with attitude what so ever, so it was important to keep me in check and i thank them for that till this day because it makes a huge effect on how you are as  a person today.

De pen da bil ity

When I think of dependability, I think durable, up to the test of time, and something I can believe and trust in. This can be applied to a car, a job, or any relationship you have with another person like a friend, lawyer, or accountant. It isn't easy to be dependable or everyone would be. When someone depends on you that means that they are counting on you and they trust you enough with responsibilities.. It's a really good trait to have in anyone and it is also rare to find the people who are consistant in being dependable. I respect those who can earn my trust and can carry that on their life resume. It's definately nothing like being DEPENDENT. Someone who is dependent definately will struggle in life just because it's hard to go through life depending on other people to get you to places you want to be in life. All we can do in life is learn how to get there on our own and work hard to get what we want. Although some may be lucky to have life handed to them on a silver platter. With out the hard work I believe that it is easy to lose sight of how easy it is to lose what we do have and not appreciate how far we have gotten.

honesty is not always the best policy

I hate when people use the excuse of being "honest" for being rude. Some comments just need to be kept to themselves. Like this girl I know is soo proud of being "real" with people and totally tells this girl that she hates her new hairstyle. I just thought it was really rude of her to do over anything. I think it's only good if it is going to better something. Not out of straight opinion but genuinely can make them better as a person or make a relationship better between you and that person. I am definetely an honest person when some one asks me to be honest. I have had times when they ask for my opinion and they didnt like my response but that was just their fault for asking for the truth when they didnt really wanna hear it in the first place. The other day did let my friend know that I have offered to give him rides home and the few times that I have, I did not hear thank you not one time from him. I told him that I thought I should probably just let him know that if he didnt know but would that be wrong of me? I didnt say it to him in any rude way but I think things like that need to be told. It was definately bothering me so next someone offers him a ride then he will learn his manners. Sorry if his parents never taught him common curtesy.

whats the plan stan??

When I makes plans with people I usually make it a priority to come through with it because one of my pet peeves are flakes. I hate when people mess up my plans because theyre in considerate of others so they just worry about themselves and their own plans. Planning is usualy really important to me so I use a planner for everything. My life gets pretty hectic sometimes so I make sure I put whatever plans I have in my planner so that I dont forget about it and accidently plan something else on that day with some one else. I know all plans in life dont seem to go as well as you thought in your head but I also believe in faith and believe that God has a plan in life for me. I want to finish college by the time im 23 or 24 then get married by 25 atleast. I usually get scared to plan my future and discuss things with my bf but I know it needs to get done, but at the same time I dont want to plan things and jinks it. Some girls like to talk to their bfs about how many kids they'll have in the future together but I honestly think that that conversation can wait atleast untill i get engaged. I don't think men are much planners but I know its more common for women to do so.

goals in life

I'm assuming were not speaking of the goal like in the game of soccer and you kick the ball into the net. To me, a goal in life is something you really want to accomplish in life and make sure you do whatever it takes to get there whether it may be hard or not. In a goal, there is also a deadline and it doesnt have to be an actual date but a maybe an age you want to do it by, a certain month, or even if you said a goal that you have when you graduate college. Whenever you set that time to be, you have to make sure it just gets done some time before you get too old to do it or forget about it. My goal in life to make sure I go to Europe when im done with my AA and go to this fashion school. I really want to get my bachellore's degree out in London and Paris so it could look good on my resume when i try and get a job as a stylist and maybe have my own company when i get older. I got blessed enough to have a mother that really supports what I want to do in life so she is giving me the opportunity to do what I want to do and pay for my school. I already did my research about the school and I definately have my mind set on going. I am sort of afraid to leave my family, friends, and boyfriend behind but it's just gonna be for 3 years and this is something that I really want to do and I cannot miss this opportunity.

oopsy i guess im supposed to speak about "hard work"

Hard work to me is some one who starts whatever they do with a positive mind and isn't afraid to push themselves to the limit. Some one who can take the lead and make sure that things get done perfectly. It's for sure a mentally and physically draining thing to do but the more you do it then you just get used to it. Ofcourse there has to be some motivation to it because when you want something so bad and you just have to get and you know you'll get it by working hard then that is the drive that will get you to work hard. whether it is a better position at work that you've always wanted, a better pay, or even something that you want to buy with all that money you've been saving from all your checks. I know what a hard worker is because my mom is definately a hard worker. It's scary and puts alot of pressure on me because she says if your parents work hard you gotta work even harder than they do. My mom owns her own business so she starts working at 9am and doesnt stop till 3am. I do hope to one day live up to my mom's expectations but i don't want to do it just because of her but i would like to do it for myself so that i can have my own business as well and have a big house one day and beable to take care and support my family. I want to stay away from asking my parents for anything when i get older, i would like to support them like theyve always supported me.